Catatan Ja'far Tamam

Bagi seorang yang mengakui kebesaran dan kehebatan Atomic Habits, mencicil gol besar dengan memecahnya menjadi bagian-bagian kecil yang mudah dan tak terhindarkan, membiasakan diri untuk menulis adalah hal yang niscaya. 

Yang pertama harus dibentuk adalah mindset bahwa saya seorang penulis. Dengan demikian maka serangkaian kebiasaan yang mengarahkannya menuju gol besarnya tersebut akan terbentuk dengan sendirinya. Hal ini sebenarnya tidak sulit, mengingat asas utama membangun habbit adalah dengan merangkainya dari hal-hal kebiasaan kecil yang mau tidak mau pasti kita bisa memenuhinya. 

Untuk menulis satu artikel dibutuhkan 3 halaman word berfont Times New Roman dengan ukuran 12. Jika hal ini terasa sangat berat, bisa dipecah dan dicicil melalui sistem atomic habits, yakni bisa dengan menulis satu hari setengah halaman, atau bisa kurang atau lebih, tergantung kesepakatan dia dengan pribadinya.

Dengan ini saya, sebagai penikmat ajaran dan filosofi Atomic Habits, hendak berkomitmen untuk merutinkan budaya menulis kembali. Saya akan mulai coba esok harinya, dengan menjadikan menulis sebagai prioritas pertama. Bismillah. Tidak perlu banyak-banyak, saya akan mencoba setiap hari menuntaskan setengah halaman saja. Dicoba besok ya. Kalo setengah halaman dirasa kurang dan berpotensi menjagal ketersambungan ide antar bagian tulisan, maka akan dicoba satu hari satu halaman. Bismillah.

Besok saya akan menulis tentang Syarat-Syarat Sah Penafsiran menurut Muhamad Afifuddin Dimyathi dan akan saya kirim ke website Bincang Syariah. 

Rutinitas menulis ini dirasa penting untuk kembali digalakkan dengan tujuan salah satunya juga adalah untuk mengasah kemampuan literasi, untuk jenjang akademisi di level yang akan datang. Wala Tamutunna Illa Wa Antum Kaatibun. 

Filosofi Teras Taught Us These .... 

Journalling of Gratitude

Journalling of Gratitude is one movement for grateefuling all that given to us. Consciously or unconsciously, we have many things that must we enjoy with them. Therefore we must write it as evidence our shape of gratitude to the creator Allah Swt for all we have get it. Many artist, famous people, entrepenur, etc doing this activities, as compound by James Clear on his website here ... https://jamesclear.com/journaling-one-sentence . Furthermore he write, 

"Journaling is simply the act of thinking about your life and writing it down. That’s it. Nothing more is needed. But despite its simplicity, the daily journal has played a key role in the careers of many prolific people."

Look at the big picture

This scene taught us that at tiny things that happened in my life there is a big picture behind it, and obliged to us for seeing and paying our atention to the big picture dont stuck with small things that can distract our main purpose. For instance, we want go to Ciputat with motorcycle and in middle of way we get tiny accident like there is person making a ridicolous to us, in essence we dont stuck with taking care more with him, just leave him and we continue our journey, our big and main purpose, that going to Ciputat. 

Penghinaan hanya terjadi berdasarkan kesepakatan dua orang

Filosofi Teras taught as that the insolence just happened with approval between performer and victim. If there is person insult other and the other accept what said by a performer and insert all of bad saying from him, happened insolence, otherwise, if there is person insult other and the one that insulted didnot accept what said the insolence not happened. All value that come from outside come with our permit and that framed by our judgment on those reality. Be carefull and live slowly.

Kasihanilah keterbatasan sudut pandang orang jahat

Fortunately, you as a good person must look the others wisely. The bad person they become like that because their weakness for looking fully the others. Their ability on looking entire caracther those they hate it is become from their weakness for judgment a real picture, they have not look the others with big picture. So, understand them and dont insert deeply and profoundly all they existed to us. They become like that just because thei weakness, have mercy on them for their debility on seeing real picture.

Parenting : Jangan memarahi anakmu terlalu sering dan beri dia kesempatan untuk memilih

Henry Manampiring insert this scene in his book. He inserted the relation bertween stoicism and skill of parenting. This relation existed from his interview with psycologh of childern, ..... . Main ideas from this interview is on our parenting journey there is many things that the parents cant control it, we behave normally. Stoicism, as we know, teach there is many things on outside us we can control it. 

And then, that is must we practice it on our skill, we cant scold often to our children. If our children made a mistake dont scold them for every mistake they made it, forgive them and explain the the true instead we scold them very often that can made our children have bad atitude like always feel guilty, infeiority, etx. Train from child to our children for take responsibility on their choice. Give them for choosing their way/their play, and order them to take responsibilty from all they have take it. And we must give them deliberation the best for them. 

Jika ia bukan saudaramu dalam iman, maka ia saudaramu dalam kemanusiaan (Ali bin Abi Thalib)

Filosofi Teras also teach us from looking others like brother and sister. We as citizen world, in essence, are in brotherhood. Imam Ali Said, "If he does not your brother/sister in faith, he your brother/sister in humanity." We must pay attention to this. We as citizen world ordered to feel what others feel. Our brother busines is our business, that why we dont ignore and neglect big problem befall the citizen world like change climate, disaster etc.

Kutipan menarik dalam bab "Berdamailah dengan Kematian"

Death or mortality is dark scene that discussed on Filosofi Teras book. Henry said Filosofi Teras remind us for facing deat calmly and wisely. All of us will death, the one thing that we must give highlight on it is how we facing him with beest preparation. 

Marcus Aurelius is Said, 

Learning Question for Present Perfect and Present Perfect Continous

Yesterday, at 18 April 2022, i've learnt basic grammar with Ms Ria. In that course i learn some lesson in grammar science, i've learnt Question word for Present Perfect and Present Perfect continous. In this course i'am so glad because i have focus pay attention on this class, i so excited following this course for i want mastering english as effective as possible. Amid course we ordered to making examples from matery we have given it. And this what i can give to her (Ms Ria), and i so excitede and happy when she was told me that almost all of my answer is correct, juts some incorrect. This my answer and responses : 

Question Word for Present Perfect

1. The Girls Have Sold A Car

Girl --- Who has sold a car?

Sold --- What have the girls done?

A Car --- What have the girls sold?

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Question Word for Present Perfect Continous

2. Ana Has Been Studying English For A Month

Ana --- Who has been studying english for a month?

Studying --- What has Ana been doing?

English --- What has Ana been studying?

For A Month --- How long has Ane been studying english?

3. Mrs Ria Have Been Teaching English In This Afternoon

Mrs Ria - Who has been teaching english in this afternoon? 

Teaching - What has Mrs Ria been doing?

English - What Has Mrs Ria been teaching?

In This Afternoon - How long has Mrs Ria been teaching English?

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Question Word For Simple Past

You Caught A Bird in The Sky

You --- Who Caught A Bird in The Sky?

Caught --- What did you do?

Bird --- What did you catch in the sky?

In The Sky --- Where did you catch a bird?

Learning How Solve a Big Problem, According to Two Website

On my reading today I get a lesson how we face a big problem and solve it joyfully. The answer is we must make it into pieces. For facing a big things we need divide it into Tiny things so we can do it with happy. Divide the big problem into things that manageable and achievable, that with it we don't feel difficult and we get to goal effectively. 

You can read completely the steps of this skill on these websites below... Go catch up!

https://jamesclear.com/narrow-focus

https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/master-a-skill

Reflect your Daily Achievement Through your Journal on Website

Alhamdulillah today i've achieved more achievement than yesterday. Throghout my strive and persistence for earn my dream, i believe that someday i can satisfy with all i struggle for it. Until now there is many things that i've wrote in this journal, about our reading and all of my ahcieving. Next i want write about one thema on islamic science here.